Joseph Yasopho

I met him around 2005 in Toronto. He sat bumming money on the sidewalk at 205 Spadina. From what I could see he was a 1 legged alcoholic crack addict.

I would step over and around him on my way to work where I was the caretaker of a commercial building that housed empathetic organizations such as: Canada Helps, Roots of Empathy and the David Suzuki Foundation. Most of the the people who worked at these organizations stepped over Joseph too, during the course of their work day.

After 2 weeks of stepping over Joseph and choking on the hypocrisy, I asked Joseph what he wanted. He said, ” I need a place to live and I’d like an electric wheelchair. ”

It took 7 months to get him a place to live and many calls to his city staff worker who I never met. A week after Joseph was supposed to move into his place he was still on the street.  I asked him why… He told me he didn’t know how or where to get the key. I called his worker and strongly suggested he could deliver Joseph his key.  The worker said. ” He’s able bodied… He can pick it up himself. ” 

” Can you tell me what’s able bodied about an alcoholic crack addict with 1 leg? ” I asked. After a long pause he managed. ” I guess you have a point. ”

Joseph died a few years ago. I lost contact.  A friend of his told me and thanked me for my efforts. 

He told me he lost his leg because of a snake bite somewhere in West Africa, where he was from.

 For reasons I can’t explain I didn’t believe him. He got his wheelchair months before he passed. 

It’s this that I think of when I think of how the government spends tax dollars  

Dennis Mantin 

Tree Moss

It’s the smell that I notice first                 Then it’s the sounds in this urban park where this tree moss grows… Stretching from the roots towards the canopy of this gorgeous maple. 

I am becoming a tree lover not dissimilar to those I used to ridicule for their frothy dissertations in the past… It’s just that here in the city these accidental moments of solitude and serenity that appear here; I am more aware now of what this means. 

I didn’t grow up here. I grew up in the rural; where the tree moss was everywhere; yet I didn’t see forest for the trees.

Dennis Mantin 

Gone Away 

Gone away the day you arrived.                   She loves you…We never survived. 
Gone away that day you came                       She loves you, can’t speak my name. 

Gone away, I miss my friend.                       In silence my words offend.                        A miracle to us is how you come.                 Be who you are not who you’re from.

She’s gone away far from me                       To be  with you as far as I can see.           It’s nothing new this path of few                 Just the legacy of me and you.                                                                 

Dennis Mantin 

Leprechaun

I have met people in my life that have experienced happy childhoods which they have segued into happy mature confident adult lives… 

I will not name names as I feel this would be somewhat akin to divulging the locations of the unicorns and leprechauns…

Your secrets are safe with me my friends…

Dennis Mantin 

Somewhere Between Raindrops 

Somewhere Between Raindrops                  Aware where my mind goes.                    Lost all need to worry                                 About details no one knows. 

Somewhere in a dark room                           When I fear to close my eyes                       It still seems to happen                                  The distance between us flies.

I love you more than want you                     Tis no longer about control                            I handed that over with the keys            

   Reluctantly paid the toll.

Dennis Mantin 

Archetype Study… The 3 Distinct Personalities of FLIPPER: the construction labourer.

His nickname was FLIPPER. This was due to his abilities to flip into a rage. However, when I first met him, I was unaware of his name origin.

PERSONALITY 1 – Flipper showed up for work on Monday, broke; without cigarettes or food. He begged and borrowed and got through the week with HUMILITY  and PATIENCE,  awaiting his first payday the following Thursday.

PERSONALITY 2 – In the hour before the paychecks arrived Flipper began to swagger. He looked at me and stated.

” Me and the boys are goin ta git some blow tonight.”  The boys we’re 2 mid twenties subordinates who’d been supplying Flipper with food and cigarettes since they’d all started working together the previous week.

Flipper was their leader. 

PERSONALITY 3 – Flipper showed up for work late on Friday, impaired and tired. He struggled through the day and when he bummed money the day after payday, his plight was met with distain and he was sent home.  The last time I saw Flipper was weeks later; he was walking down the street, arguing with a woman pushing a baby in a stroller. 

Dennis Mantin 

The Grievance Expression of Pain … The advice of Kelly O’Brian

Kelly told me 25 years ago…

” You will meet people there; who will complain about free food. That’s just the way they are. Nothing will ever be good enough. Stay away from those people!’

I have always followed this advice… As soon as I hear the expression of complaint and pain, I walk away. This has served me well and makes my world smaller and manageable.

Dennis Mantin 

The Yoga Mask

Spiritually enlightened!                             You might not have to ask.                        Just listen… She will tell you.                       In her glow you can bask.  

Patriarchal dominance                                 Now that was not much fun                     It’s like a month of Sunday’s                     All rolled into one.

Bathing now in estrogen                   Information it just flows                               A wee bit like Pinocchio                            The energy just grows!

                       

Dennis Mantin