My father was very careful and thorough: Only now, I can see and appreciate the brilliance in the absence of his efforts. To not have to unlearn anything is proving to be invaluable.
To have a lifetime of trial and errors without the bothersome interference of elders teaching and paving the way can now be reflected upon in a rich tapestry of original experience.
Thanks, Dad!
Dennis Mantin 
This reflection is subtle, thoughtful, and quietly moving. What makes it especially compelling is the reversal of the usual narrative: guidance is honored not through visible instruction, but through restraint. You recognize wisdom in what was not imposed, and that insight feels both mature and generous.
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