They say there are 3 loves…

The 1st is a childish love. You lose this one for silly reasons.

The 2nd is hard love. This one will hurt with loss and betrayal.This one will teach the lessons of pain and manipulation. This one will show you what you want and don’t want.

The 3rd love will find you when you have stopped looking. This love just arrived, and I do not judge such gifts. I have stopped judging her. I have been fortunate in all of the 3. However, I didn’t know this fortune during the first 2.