The first Love is the naive Love. In which you get hurt because the person we are with could never live up to your grand idealistic expectations. This may be the true Love.

The second Love. Is the ego Love and this is one where we learn the lessons from the first one and make demands to ensure whomever we’re with in this relationship knows the pain we experienced in the first Love and there will be hell to pay.

The third Love is where we learn to put up healthy boundaries and become less demanding. This is the last Love and the one with the greatest chance of success.

Whatever the hell that is.