I told her there are 3 things she should learn to do. Before I gave the list I added: You are not doing anything wrong. It’s all part of the learning curve. We all need to learn these things or learn how to suffer. She nodded.

1. Learn to mind your own business.

2. Listen more than you speak, and

3. Keep your hands to yourself: unless you have to defend yourself.

She nodded again…

I thought this was enough for 1 day.