Rummaging in places others left alone.
Have been like this forever.
I remember being told.
“Why don’t you just leave all of that be ? And get on with your life. “
I didn’t have the answer then; but I do now.
If someone doesn’t have what it takes to look at the insanity then it just continues, one generation to the next.
I’ve been rummaging to stop the: intergenerational transmission of family disfunction.