The wise one cautioned me about using words like ‘idiot’ and expressing anger.

I told him, “‘I’m saying this to you because I feel I need to get it out. I’m not saying this anywhere else, except maybe to myself. “

“You look at the actions of the one you call the idiot as if they have a choice. Like you getting release by saying these things to me, they are getting release by saying what they say to you…”

“Ah, yes… now I see! Thank you Wise One.”