The solid wise decisions in life I have found don’t come in a snap, but happen gradually over time.

Like, I didn’t know at first that I was a better writer than a talker.

However after many embarrassments of shamed silence, I realized that shutting up and taking the few extra seconds to think before speaking; led to the more silent reserved loner existence of a writer. A happy accident.

Except when I am with her…

Her I can make laugh with the sound of my voice.