Wilf, my therapist told me that he has divided our work into 3 stages.
The first dealt with my ‘difficult’ past and has produced understanding and forgiveness.
Th second dealt with the accusations of anger and my willingness to find out if this were indeed true and developing improved ways to communicate and concluded when Wilf said I didn’t need to come to therapy.
The third stage has been the development of strategies and guidelines to be the best parent I can possibly be.
This may be my best ever report card!