The advisor said, “Kill them with kindness.”
Sometimes you have to recognize that avoiding conflict with someone who is addicted to conflict is the only option if avoiding a pyrrhic victory.
Writing cheques to keep peace appears weak to some… I get it.
However, if you don’t raise children in a safe, peaceful environment, then you’ll be dealing with therapy for the rest of their lives.
Dennis Mantin 
Never thought of it that way. Addicted to conflict or said another way addicted to drama. Yes, avoid at all cost
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The theory is… that people who are addicted to drama/conflict get a rush of saritonine in their brains and are unconditionally creating conflict to get the ‘feel-good’ rush of saritonine.
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I meant unconsciously not unconditionally.
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