I have 3 people I go to for advice:

1 is my friend Jill; another is my friend David and the 3rd is my therapist Wilf…

I am careful not to give advice and this danger was only averted later in life as I suffered greatly as a young man offering precious opinions on shite I knew nothing about.

I don’t feel alone in this particular defect of character as I believe this is a seemingly inherent right of youth that either you grow out of or you grow alone.